KARB WedPrep #1
Me-ann: Reeee, I’m sooooo happy for you and Kris!
Ria: Thanks, Me-ann.
Me-ann: So when is it gonna be? Are you planning na?
Ria: Still thinking about it. I just want a simple wedding though.
Me-ann: With Kris, you can never have a simple ’simple wedding.’
Rex in the background: Ay oo. Mahirap yan!
Ria: bye-bye :o)
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A lot of people have been asking about our wedding plans already. The pressure is turning a notch higher because many say we are kinda delayed in the planning department if we want a wedding sometime October of this year.
If things are normal in our respective families; if we are just talking of ordinary Metro Manila wedding; if we are talking of a few people…trust me, I would have been planning to my maximum O.C.-capacity! However, there are matters beyond my control and there are certain ‘diplomatic’ standards in handling things with some people in our lives. So, for now, I can only just jot down personal ideas.
Some say, “don’t mind other people…it is your wedding.” To which I counter, is it, really? Like, can I get away not inviting certain people…and not earn their ire? Can I get away not putting this and/or that person in the entourage…without sowing animosity with relatives? Can I insist on small venues…and not be problematic about crowds? Will other people really understand?
I am sure, these problems have been encountered many times in the past. Pero, a big worry for me is, I got no immediate family to cover my back. I have no one from my side to bargain along with me/to back me up in my plans. Then, my part of the finances in this wedding is solely mine…so if some matters/people insist on doing certain things/way, how can I accommodate? In addition, most of my relatives and some my close friends will be abroad — it’s quite sad that they’re not gonna be with me on such a hectic day.
Again, the line, “don’t mind other people…it is your wedding.”
But, again, I retort, is it really? Can it truly be? Will it actually be?
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